Over many years we have developed a list of books and resources which we and others have found helpful. If you would like further help in finding a title or would like to suggest a title to add to our listing please contact the Support and Information Team or call 01494 568900.
Please note: inclusion on this list does not constitute a recommendation by Child Bereavement UK, as we are aware that whether a book is helpful or not is subjective and as such is a decision that can only be made by the individual reader.
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The books below may be helpful for parents and carers who are supporting children who have been bereaved of someone special.
When your Partner Dies: Supporting your children
A short booklet which offers guidance around things that a surviving partner may struggle with when parenting their bereaved children as well as coping with their own grief. It has been developed with help from bereaved families and has been kindly funded by BBC Children in Need. Useful for GP surgeries, Health visitors etc.
A Child's Grief: supporting a child when someone in their family has died
Author: Di Stubbs, Julie Stokes, Katrina Alilovic
This short booklet offers practical suggestions and activities for adults who are supporting children through a bereavement. It covers a range of issues that may affect a child when someone important to them dies, both immediately and in the longer term.
Someone Very Important Has Just Died
Author: Mary Turner
This short book tackles the sensitive issues of what to tell children, how far to include them in the events immediately after the death, and how to tend to their physical and emotional needs. The material is suitable for anyone regardless of their background and beliefs, and is supplemented with information on where to go to obtain longer term bereavement support.
Talking About Death
Author: Earl Grollman
This guide to helping children cope with death includes an illustrated, read-along story, and discusses coping with a child’s anger, denial or guilt, and how to discuss funerals, cemeteries and grief.
Grief in Children: A Handbook for Adults
Author: Atle Dyregov
This fully updated second edition of “Grief in Children” explains children’s understanding of death at different ages and gives a detailed outline of exactly hoe the adults around them can best help them cope